with the school?
The
purpose of life is not survival but beauty.
It is clear that things struggle to survive, what is surprising is that
the struggle aims at beauty.
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by Alessandro D'Avenia
A
few days ago it became clear to me once again in a small square in Milan: the
first blooms were already shining on the branches of some magnolias, in a still
winter light. It wasn't an anomaly. Many stopped to admire, seized by that
desire that beauty awakens because, beauty being a complete life, it reminds us
that we are made for this: to fulfill ourselves in the time and in the world
given to us. Beauty asks: where are you with the gifts of life? And if beauty
is the aim of life, it should also be the aim of education which is to help
life grow.
Does
it happen in the place designated, after the family, for this: the school?
There you should discover your own uniqueness and then bring it to fruition by
searching in the world and in time for what serves the purpose. Yet, the «XXI
Profile of graduates» presented on 29 February by AlmaDiploma , already
analyzed on these pages, reports that one in two young people say they have the
wrong school and university address. Inevitable outcome of an orientation that
is almost absent in lower and upper secondary schools. You leave middle school
and high school possessing skills, but not yourself. And without this you
cannot be happy. Why?
In
a world where the criterion of happiness is efficiency, what matters is to
acquire "spendable" skills at work as soon as possible.
Being
"spendable" means being "purchasable", that is, becoming a
"resource" ourselves to be "exhausted": this means
resource, and unfortunately we have decided that people are human resources.
Instead,
happiness depends on the depth of relationships we have with the world and with
others: our happy memories in fact concern what we have created with our
attitudes and the significant relationships we have formed. If I don't know who
I am and who I'm with, skills are just clothes on a mannequin.
Orientation
should serve to discover one's talents and then make them flourish for the
benefit of others over time, thanks to land and gardeners chosen because they
are suitable for those characteristics, such as the magnolias that attract
passers-by to stop and children to play. Not knowing themselves (i.e. not being
recognized by those who educate them), children rely on fleeting impressions,
majority choices, family expectations. One cannot not choose but if one does
not have the energy and courage of a vocation, one chooses what seems most
certain, comfortable, safe, thus giving up one's own specific beauty. This is
why many kids find themselves in lives that are not theirs, with the sense of
guilt and anxiety typical of a culture of perfection and performance. Unlike
those magnolias who do what they are called to do in the time they need, right
in the middle of traffic, we risk being swallowed up by that traffic: a world
that tells us how to be and what to do before allowing us to discover who we
are and for whom. Can a magnolia be happy when asked to bear pears or to flower
in all seasons? It will come into contradiction with itself , it will be
exploited (deprived of its fruits) and it will wither.
With
the aim of providing orientation in the school, the figure of the tutor teacher
was introduced this year. It is a first step, but a 20-hour online training
cannot be enough for the patient educational work necessary to discover the
uniqueness of a child. You don't become a gardener in 20 hours and man is more
complex than a magnolia. A few days ago I read the interview with the
footballer Rafa Leão , for whom I have a very partial footballing
sympathy, who spoke about his childhood in Lisbon: «the ball is always at my
feet in a very working-class neighbourhood, most of its inhabitants are
immigrants, many from Africa. Not an easy place. The good thing was that there
was football there, I played with it from morning to night. Entire afternoons in
the supermarket car park. Often it was crumpled up papers or a can or bottle
used as a ball, while a car was the goal. My way of playing is still the same,
street football, made up of feints, shots and cunning." That child, like
every child, had a vocation that would have made him happy: «God gave me a gift
and I am grateful to him. My job is to play football, I fulfilled my childhood
dream. How could I not smile?". And that child continues to look for
beauty and joy: «I love beautiful goals. Football today is just statistics,
figures. And I don't like it. Football is magic, joy. It makes me angry that
people only think about numbers. I'm not like that. Because people have to have
fun. So I have to have fun too. I'm for beauty." But without what his
family and first teachers did for him, that talent would have gone to waste.
Cooperation
is for me one of the most interesting chapters of recent botany, developed in
recent years by the studies of Suzanne Simard who has rewritten the competitive
paradigm in the evolution of plants (I recommend the TedTalk «How trees talk to
each other » of 2016 and his book The mother tree ): when the tree of a
group is threatened or becomes ill, the other specimens, even of different
species, exchange not only aerial information via diffusible hormones but above
all nutrients through l the immense network of their roots. Trees are not first
and foremost individual actors competing for resources, but a collaborative
system, with some trees which due to their age have a central role in the birth
and life of the youngest ones. This system is defined by Simard as « intelligence
of the forest ». Until the school has this intelligence, it will only use
the language of usefulness and efficiency (performance, credits, debts,
skills...) and not of life (growth, maturation, cooperation, vocation...) its «
shoots" will often wither before "maturity" instead of becoming
beautiful like the magnolias which, even on busy and polluted asphalt, push us
to stop and breathe and ask ourselves why and for whom we are here.
He
rolls his eyes towards the sky
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