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martedì 23 dicembre 2025

CHRISTMAS WITH BONHOEFFER

 


THE MIRACLE 

OF 

GOD'S LOVE

 

"One thing above all: you must not think that I am letting this lonely Christmas discourage me." Dietrich Bonhoeffer wrote this to his parents on December 17, 1943, from Tegel Prison in Berlin, where he had been held on charges of conspiring against the Nazi regime. He was placed in solitary confinement in a filthy cell, without anyone speaking to him. The letter continued: "From a Christian perspective, spending Christmas in a prison cell cannot be a particular problem. Many in this house will probably celebrate a more meaningful and authentic Christmas than where only the name of this holiday remains. A prisoner understands better than anyone else that misery, suffering, poverty, loneliness, helplessness, and guilt have a completely different meaning in the eyes of God than in the judgment of men; that God turns his gaze precisely on those from whom men usually turn him away; that Christ was born in a stable because he found no room in the inn; that He was born in a stable because he could not find a place ... all this is truly good news for a prisoner" (D. Bonhoeffer, Resistenza e resa , Cinisello Balsamo [MI], Ed. Paoline, 1988, 324).

He remained in Tegel prison for 18 months. In October 1944, he was transferred to the Gestapo prison on Prinz-Albrecht- Straße and then, on February 7, 1945, to the Buchenwald concentration camp. On April 9, he was hanged in the Flossenburg extermination camp for conspiracy against the Führer. He was 39 years old. Sensing his approaching death, he said: "It's the end—for me, the beginning of life."

* * *

Christmas in Prison

In the aforementioned letter, he stated that he wanted to remember Christmas in prison "with a certain pride." He was referring above all to the pride of knowing he was following Christ, born "in a stable because he couldn't find a place in the inn." Nor was there a place in the dominant society for D. Bonhoeffer, a pastor of the Lutheran Confession and a declared enemy of the Nazi regime. He was rejected like Christ, and like Christ, judged guilty. For someone like him, who had chosen Christ as the lord, center, and ideal of his life, being "treated like a dangerous criminal," imprisoned and silenced, authenticated his Christian faith. This condition—assimilation to Christ—deepened and developed in its essential elements, constitutes the soul of his religious conception: "The man whom God welcomes, judges, and raises to new life is Jesus Christ, and in him all humanity: that is, us. Only the person of Jesus Christ victoriously confronts the world. From this person, a world reconciled with God is born and takes shape" (D. Bonhoeffer, Ethics , Milan, Bompiani, 1969, 69).

In the birth of Jesus Christ, God humbles himself and reveals himself: "Christ in the manger [...]. God is not ashamed of man's lowliness; he enters into it [...]. God is close to lowliness; he loves what is lost, what is overlooked, the insignificant, the marginalized, the weak, and the broken; where men say 'lost,' there he says 'saved'; where men say 'no,' there he says 'yes.' Where men indifferently or haughtily turn away their gaze, there he fixes his gaze, full of incomparable, ardent love. Where men say 'despicable,' there God exclaims 'blessed.'" Wherever in our lives we have ended up in a situation where we can only be ashamed before ourselves and before God, where we think that God too should now be ashamed of us, where we feel further from God than ever before in our life, precisely there God is close to us as he has never been before, there he wants to break into our lives, there he makes us feel his approach, so that we understand the miracle of his love, his closeness and his grace» («Sermon of the 3rd Sunday of Advent», in D. Bonhoeffer, Riconoscere Dio al centro della vita , Brescia, Queriniana , 2004, 12 ff; hereinafter RD).

* * *

Christmas allows us to understand this miracle.

Bonhoeffer understood this so vividly that he considered it the reality of his life. In his cell in Tegel prison, he hung his Advent wreath on a nail and hung Lippi's Nativity scene. Meditation on Mary and the Child in the manger filled him with serenity; he recalled the songs sung as a family, especially these lines: The manger shines bright and clear, / the night brings a new light, / darkness must not enter, / faith always remains in the light ( Resistance and Surrender , cit., 214). Then that "hole" of a prison becomes a wide-open window onto the universe of faith, and the darkness is absorbed by the light of a mystery not simply to be remembered, but to be celebrated.

"The fact that God chooses Mary as his instrument, the fact that God wants to come personally into this world in the manger of Bethlehem, is not a family idyll, but rather the beginning of a total conversion, of a reordering of all things on this earth. If we want to participate in this event of Advent and Christmas, we cannot simply stand by like spectators in a theater and enjoy the beautiful images that pass before us, but we must allow ourselves to be drawn into the action that unfolds here, in this reversal of all things; we too must play on this stage; here the spectator is always also an actor in the drama, and we cannot withdraw" (RD, 14).

At this point Bonhoeffer asks himself the meaning of the scene offered to us by Christmas. What happens at Christmas? "The judgment of the world and the redemption of the world: that is what happens here. And it is the Baby Jesus himself in the manger who accomplishes the judgment and the redemption of the world." The consequence is peremptory: "We cannot approach his manger as we approach the cradle of another child: something happens to anyone who wants to approach his manger, because he can only leave it again judged or redeemed; he must collapse here or else know that God's mercy is directed toward him" (RD, 15).

A pagan Christmas

Celebrating Christmas "in a paganly detached manner," considering it a "beautiful and pious legend," thinking that the Christmas discourse is simply "a figure of speech": all this means disengaging from Revelation and Redemption. God becomes a child "not to amuse himself, to play," but to reveal to us that "God's throne in the world is not in human thrones, but in the depths and depths of humanity, in the manger." Around his throne he did not want the great ones of the earth, but obscure and unknown figures "who never tire of gazing at this miracle and want to live completely by God's mercy." The manger and the cross are the two realities that determine the destiny of humanity. Before them, the courage of the great ones of this world dissolves, and in its place fear takes its place. In truth, "no violent person dares approach the manger, and not even King Herod did so. Precisely because here thrones totter, the violent fall, the proud are brought low, because God is with the lowest […]. Before Mary, the servant, the manger of Christ, before the God of lowliness, the strong man falls, he has no rights, no hope, he is judged».

Such considerations lead to a sincere examination of conscience. "In the light of the manger," what is high and what is low in human life? Do we have the same criteria as the Lord in making a judgment on this matter? "Each of us lives with people we call high-ranking and with people we call low-ranking. Each of us always has someone who is lower than him. Will this Christmas help us to learn once again to radically change our minds on this point, to change our mentality and to know that our path, to the extent that it must be a path to God, does not lead us upwards, but rather, in a very real way, downwards, towards the lowly, and to know that every path tending only upwards necessarily ends in a frightening way?" Bonhoeffer's conclusion is peremptory: "God does not allow us to make fun of him ( Gal 6:7). He does not allow us to celebrate Christmas year after year without taking it seriously. He certainly keeps his word, and at Christmas, when he enters, with his glory and with his power into the manger, he will overthrow the violent from their thrones if finally, finally they do not convert" (RD, 18).

* * *

A child is born for us

In another sermon-meditation of Christmas 1940, Bonhoeffer focuses on the text of Isaiah (9:5-6): "A child is born to us" and on the titles with which the prophet describes him. The elevated tones are shot through with shivers of emotion at the awareness that the prophet's today is also our today. Even in our time, so burdened by sin and misery, a child is born who brings about our redemption. "My life now depends solely on the fact that this child is born, that this son is given to us , that this descendant of man, this Son of God belongs to me, that I know him, that I have him, that I love him, that I am his and that he is mine" (RD, 26).

Faced with the statement that "on the frail shoulders of this newborn baby rests the sovereignty of the entire world," self-confident modern man might perhaps laugh mockingly; but believers know that the Child of Bethlehem is "God in human form." They also know that the sovereignty resting on his shoulders "consists in patiently bearing humanity and its sins. And this bearing begins in the manger, begins there where the eternal Word of God took on human flesh and carried it."

What names does the prophet give to this Child? Wonderful Counselor : "From the eternal counsel of God has come the birth of the savior child," who with his love conquers and saves us. "This Son of God, since he is his wonderful counselor, is also a source of all miracles and all counsel." Powerful God : "Here he is poor like us, wretched and defenseless like us, a man of blood and flesh like us, our brother. And yet he is God, yet he is powerful. Where is the divinity, where is the power of this child? In the divine love with which he became equal to us. His misery in the manger is his power." Forever Father : in this child the eternal love of the Father is revealed because "the Son is one with the Father [...]. Born in time, he brings eternity with him to earth." Prince of Peace : "Where God comes to men and unites himself with them out of love, there peace is made between God and man, and between man and man. If you fear God's wrath, go to the child in the manger and let him give you God's peace. If you are at odds with your brother and hate him, come and see how God has become our brother out of pure love and wants to reconcile us. Violence reigns in the world; this child is the Prince of Peace. Where he is, there peace reigns" (RD, 30).

* * *

Courage and deep faith

It took courage and deep faith to write these words when Hitler's army was advancing victoriously on many European nations, convinced that Gott mit Uns , that God was with the Aryan race, that God was the Third Reich . While many intellectuals, scientists and artists had emigrated because they were aware of the end of all cultural freedom, he — Bonhoeffer — had returned to Germany from the United States to help his nation rediscover its soul, its freedom, above all to remind it where the roots of peace lie. Karl Barth, his teacher, had denounced the irreconcilability of Nazism with Christianity and abandoned Germany; Bonhoeffer, overcoming all fears, had decided to remain alongside the "Confessing Church" ( die bekennende Kirche ) of clear opposition to Nazism. To the Third Reich it opposed the kingdom of God.

«Only where Jesus is not allowed to reign, where human obstinacy, spite, hatred, and greed can run wild, can there be no peace. Jesus does not want his kingdom of peace through violence, but rather gives his wondrous peace to those who voluntarily submit to him and let him reign over them […]. A kingdom of peace and justice, the unfulfilled desire of humanity, began with the birth of the divine child. We are called to this kingdom, and we can find it if we receive in the Church, in the community of believers, the word and sacrament of the Lord Jesus Christ, if we submit ourselves to his sovereignty, if we recognize in the child placed in the manger our savior and redeemer and allow him to give us a new life in love» (RD, 32f). Al Gott mit To the Nazis, the Lutheran pastor opposes the "God with us, Jesus-Emmanuel" of Christmas.

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God becomes man out of love for men.

 We celebrate this Christmas in a historical period at times threatened by the strategy of horror, under skies of uncertainty and dismay, albeit without the immense tragedies of the Second World War. Some thinkers and writers have long since chanted De Profundis for humanity. Bonhoeffer lived in times much darker than ours. Instead of De Profundis , he invited the men of his time to contemplate the manger of Bethlehem, so as to be able to sing the hymn of hope despite the gloom of the times. Two of his thoughts punctuate its notes: "The figure of the one who reconciles, the God-Man Jesus Christ, stands between God and the world, and occupies the center of all events. In him the secret of the world is revealed, and in him the secret of God is revealed. No abyss of evil can remain hidden from him through whom the world is reconciled with God. But the abyss of God's love encompasses even the most abysmal iniquity." « God becomes man out of love for men. He does not seek the most perfect of men to unite himself with him, but assumes human nature as it is. Jesus Christ is not a transfigured humanity of exaltation, but God's "yes" to real man; not the dispassionate "yes" of a judge, but the merciful "yes" of a companion in suffering. This "yes" contains the entire life and hope of the world» ( Ethics , cit., 62f.).

 Civiltà Cattolica


 

venerdì 5 dicembre 2025

WE ARE COMMITTED

 


 Volunteer, the army 
of "despite"


On World Volunteer Day, we dedicate our website's homepage to them, with the "ten words" that are the driving forces of volunteerism today. It's our "thank you" to the 4.7 million Italians who give freely for others and for the common good: today, despite everything. The ten words are taken from the November magazine, "Volunteer, why do you do it?": a forceful issue that forcefully defends the rationale and meaning of "we commit ourselves." Together, they represent a sort of modern-day rewriting of the beautiful text written by Don Primo Mazzolari in 1949, which we reproduce here in its original version.

 

by Sara De Carli

 

Research has been telling us for some years now that voluntary action is no longer motivated by solidarity. In an age marked by impotence, "wanting to change the world" mostly sounds like utopia. And if there are those who choose... Rage -bite as "word of the year , " we say that volunteering is the most powerful antidote to anger, cynicism, and resignation. As Riccardo Guidi writes in VITA , "volunteering is one of the most valuable collective strategies for responding to frustration through care." And as Andrea Cardoni reminded us , quoting the poet Angelo Maria Ripellino during the magazine presentation we held in Florence, "we are all 'despites,' buffeted by the wind, trying to resist the suffering of life."

The issue of VITA dedicated to volunteers, "Volunteer, why do you do it?" , is a stand-up issue: a choice of sides and a huge "thank you" to the millions of volunteers in Italy who, every day, dedicate themselves to others and the common good. On World Volunteer Day, we dedicate our website's homepage to them, featuring the "ten words" that today represent the driving forces of volunteering: from "community" to "frustration," from "desire" to "imagination."

Ten signatures reflecting on the new drivers of volunteering

Together, they represent a sort of modern-day rewriting of the beautiful and ever-timely text that Don Primo Mazzolari wrote in 1949, "Our Commitment ," here in the original version shared by the Don Primo Mazzolari Foundation. Let's start from here, let's start from ourselves.

Our commitment

We are committed

us and not the others

only us and not others

neither he who is above nor he who is below

neither those who believe nor those who do not believe.

We are committed

without expecting anyone else to make any commitment to us or on our behalf, like us or otherwise.

 We are committed

without judging those who don't make an effort

without accusing those who don't commit themselves

without condemning those who don't commit themselves

without trying because he doesn't commit

without giving up because others don't.

We know that we can do nothing about anyone, nor do we want to force anyone's hand, devoted as we are and as we intend to remain to the free movement of every spirit rather than to the success of ourselves or our convictions.

The world moves if we move it changes if we change it becomes new if someone becomes a new creature it becomes barbaric if we unleash the beast that is in each of us

We can do nothing about our world, about this reality that is our outside world, poor as we are and as we intend to remain, nameless. If we feel we have power over something—and we firmly desire it—it is over ourselves, over ourselves alone.

The world moves if we move

it changes if we change

it becomes new if someone becomes a new creature

it becomes barbaric if we unleash the beast that is in each of us.

The new order begins if someone makes an effort to become a new man.

Spring begins with the first flower

the night with the first star

the river with the first drop of water

love with the first dream.

We are committed 

Why…

We know exactly why we are committed : but we don't want to know, at least at this first moment , according to a reasoned procedure, the only one that satisfies many even when they don't understand , precisely when they don't understand.

We know this and we say it to ourselves more than to others:

We are committed 

because we couldn't help but try.

There is someone or something within us—an instinct, a reason, a calling, a grace—stronger than ourselves.

In the most dire moments, we orient ourselves by calls whose origin is unclear, but which constitute the surest certainty, the only certainty amidst the general disorientation. The spirit can also open a path through the resistance of our selfishness in this way, preparing us for those new, continuous obediences that can be imposed in each of us by conscience, reason, and faith.

We are committed 

To find meaning in life, in this life, in our life, a reason that isn't one of the many reasons we know well and that don't capture our hearts, a usefulness that isn't one of the usual traps generously offered to young people by practical people. We only live once, and we don't want to be "tricked" in the name of any petty interest.

we are not interested in career

we don't care about money

We are not interested in women if you present them to us as females only.

We are not interested in the success of ourselves or our ideas

we are not interested in going down in history.

marble scares us. 

We are not interested in being heroes or traitors before men if it costs us our loyalty to ourselves.


We are interested

to lose ourselves for something or someone who will remain even after we have passed and who constitutes the reason for our finding each other.

we are interested

to carry an eternal destiny through time

to feel responsible for everything and everyone

to set out, even through long wanderings, towards Love, which has spread a smile of poetry over every creature, from the flower to the child, from the star to the maiden, which makes us pensive before a cradle and waiting before a coffin.

We are committed not to rearrange the world, not to remake it to measure, but to love it.

We are committed

not to reorder the world

not to remake it to measure

but to love him

to love

even what we cannot accept

even that which is not lovable

even the one who seems to refuse love

because behind every face and under every heart there is, together with a great thirst for love, the face and heart of Love .

We are committed

because we believe in Love,

the only certainty that fears no comparison,

the only one that is enough to make us totally committed.

 

The source of the quotation is P. Mazzolari, Impegno con Cristo , critical edition edited by G. Vecchio, EDB, Bologna, 2007



 

martedì 12 settembre 2023

WHERE IS THE SCHOOL ? DOV'E' LA SCUOLA ?

 

it - en 
L’arcivescovo di Milano: “Dov’è la scuola? 

È là dove c’è gente che ama l’umanità e il suo futuro”

 «Dov’è la scuola?» si interrogano i bambini che si affacciano per la prima volta, tenuti per mano da genitori più in ansia di loro, mentre entrano nell’edificio più volte guardato dall’esterno con un desiderio vivo di entrare nel mondo nuovo.

«Dov’è la scuola?» si domandano i dirigenti, i docenti, il personale che inizia un anno di responsabilità e di lavoro in una nuova sede e studia i percorsi, i parcheggi e soprattutto i volti di colleghi e collaboratori per capire dove si sia capitati.

 «Dov’è la scuola?» si domanda l’agente della polizia locale incaricato di organizzare il caos dei primi giorni e l’ingorgo di auto e pedoni.

 Ma la domanda non cerca solo l’indirizzo da impostare sul navigatore. Piuttosto intende collocare la scuola in un contesto in cui urge una fierezza di essere scuola, una proposta di relazioni, di istruzione, di valori civici.

 «Dov’è la scuola?» è l’appello all’istituzione che raduna la totalità della generazione del futuro perché la scuola sia riconoscibile come una comunità plurale e corale, propositiva e paziente. La molteplicità delle esigenze, delle aspettative, delle problematiche deve essere condotta a una presenza riconoscibile e autorevole per offrire percorsi di formazione, di educazione, di ricerca vocazionale.

 «Dov’è la scuola?» è il rimprovero da rivolgere a chi a scuola non ci va, alle famiglie che non sono in grado o non hanno voglia di pretendere che i figli frequentino con regolarità e impegno il percorso scolastico che la comunità propone.

 «Dov’è la scuola?» è la richiesta che si deve porre ai responsabili del bene comune e degli investimenti, perché si provveda a riparare i danni delle tempeste estive, ad adeguare gli edifici perché siano sicuri, accoglienti, belli, adeguatamente vigilati.

 «Dov’è la scuola?» è la domanda che mi pongo, perché vorrei entrare in ogni scuola e in ogni classe per dire un augurio, per assicurare la disponibilità della comunità cristiana locale a coltivare buoni rapporti per una rispettosa e costruttiva collaborazione al servizio del bene di tutti.

 Vorrei dire a ogni dirigente, a ogni docente, a ogni persona del servizio alla struttura la mia stima, il mio incoraggiamento e la mia benedizione per l’anno scolastico che inizia e la speranza che non tardi troppo e non sia troppo complicata l’alleanza con le famiglie, con le espressioni del territorio che accompagnano i più giovani nello sport, nelle arti, nell’affrontare i problemi di salute, di disabilità, di inserimento.

 «Dov’è la scuola?». Io posso rispondere: la scuola è nel pensiero e nella passione di chi vi lavora, la scuola è tra le priorità delle amministrazioni e delle istituzioni, la scuola è nel buon senso lungimirante delle famiglie che chiedono istruzione e formazione per il futuro dei propri figli.

 Ecco dov’è la scuola, là dove c’è gente che ama l’umanità e il suo futuro. Con ogni buon augurio.

 

+ Mario Delpini, arcivescovo di Milano




Archbishop of Milan: "Where is the school?

 It is where there are people who love humanity and its future."

 "Where is the school?" wonder the children looking out for the first time, held by the hands of parents more anxious than they are, as they enter the building many times looked at from the outside with a vivid desire to enter the new world.

 "Where is the school?" wonder the principals, faculty, and staff as they begin a year of responsibility and work in a new location and study the routes, parking lots, and especially the faces of colleagues and co-workers to figure out where they have landed.

 "Where is the school?" wonders the local police officer in charge of organizing the chaos of the early days and the traffic jam of cars and pedestrians.

 But the question is not just looking for an address to set on the navigator. Rather, it seeks to place the school in a context where a pride in being a school, a proposal for relationships, education, and civic values, is urgently needed.

 "Where is the school?" is the call to the institution that gathers the totality of the future generation for the school to be recognizable as a plural and choral community, purposeful and patient. The multiplicity of needs, expectations, and problems must be led to a recognizable and authoritative presence to offer pathways for formation, education, and vocational research.

 "Where is the school?" is the rebuke to be addressed to those who do not go to school, to families who are unable or unwilling to demand that their children attend with regularity and commitment the schooling that the community offers.

 "Where is the school?" is the demand that must be put to those responsible for the common good and investment, so that the damage of the summer storms can be repaired, buildings adapted so that they are safe, welcoming, beautiful, and adequately supervised.

 "Where is the school?" is the question I ask, for I would like to enter every school and every classroom to say a good wish, to assure the readiness of the local Christian community to cultivate good relationships for respectful and constructive cooperation in the service of the good of all.

 I would like to say to every principal, every teacher, every facility service person my esteem, my encouragement and my blessing for the school year that is beginning and my hope that the alliance with families, with the expressions of the territory that accompany the youngest in sports, in the arts, in dealing with problems of health, of disability, of inclusion, will not be too late and will not be too complicated.

 "Where is school?" I can answer school is in the thinking and passion of those who work there, school is among the priorities of administrations and institutions, school is in the forward-looking common sense of families who demand education and training for the future of their children.

 That is where the school is, where there are people who love humanity and its future. With every good wish.

+ Mario Delpini, archbishop of Milan




lunedì 7 agosto 2023

KEEP RIDING THE WAVES OF LOVE AND CHARITY


In the final WYD event on his schedule, Pope Francis thanks the 25 thousand World Youth Day volunteers from 150 countries for their wonderful generosity, service and faith.

- By Thaddeus Jones

 In his final meeting with young people in Lisbon on Sunday afternoon, Pope Francis met with 25 thousand World Youth Day volunteers at another large outdoor event on a sun-baked afternoon there. The volunteers came from around the world representing 150 countries.

 Celebration and joy

The event began with a video featuring video highlights of World You day as a way to relive the intense and joyous days of celebration and joy. Participants from around the world shared their experience of the celebrations in a video collage of interviews interspersed with moments from the WYD events.

 Then three young participants offered their own live testimonies telling the Pope about their experience of World Youth Day and how it transformed them and their faith.

 Chiara from Germany working in youth ministry said the WYD events gave her a tangible experience of God's boundless love and acceptance. She added that it marked a powerful experience of being part of a Church that represents so many people from around the world, a real family, and a beautiful mosaic of cultures and believers in the one God searching for His love.

 Francisco from Portugal just graduated from college, but spent the past year assisting in the preparations for WYD as a volunteer. He said it's been a real journey and hard work, but a wonderful experience of inner growth and seeing Jesus in others, especially their smiles.

 Then Filipe, a volunteer also from Portugal, spoke about how WYD helped him draw closer to the Lord and recognize the Lord in every person he met. He expressed his lifelong mission to serve Christ and others for peace in our world.

 Thank you to all

The Patriarch of Lisbon, Cardinal Manuel Clemente, then thanked the Pope for his presence and participation, saying everyone will carry the experiences in their hearts and memories. He thanked the volunteers for their great dedication, calling them the "World Youth Day 2023 generation".

 Pope Francis then read parts of his prepared address and spoke ad lib, expressing his profound gratitude and praising everyone for their hard work making these unforgettable days possible. Recalling how everyone labored for months, behind the scenes with little fanfare, they set an example as a real team and service for all.

 Joy of service

The Pope said despite the fatigue he could see on their faces at times, he always noticed that their eyes glowed "with the joy of service."  He thanked them for their generosity, rushing to meet others and to serve them "in the name of Jesus."

 Recalling the testimonies of Chiara, Francisco and Filipe, the Pope observed how all three spoke of "a special encounter with Jesus" and how that "most beautiful" experience became the "engine" that helps us move in earnest and keep going in our life of faith and service.

 “Renewing the personal encounter with Jesus every day is the heart of the Christian life.”

 Vatican News

martedì 14 febbraio 2023

LET LOVE HEAL THE WORLD

Valentine’s Day, a time to show love, is a welcome celebration for today’s world, which is so lacking in compassion and selfless love, according to Bishop Emmanuel Adetoyese Badejo of the Diocese of Oyo, in Nigeria.

 - Bishop Emmanuel Adetoyese Badejo - Diocese of Oyo, Nigeria.

Saint Valentine, with whom the celebration is associated, lived a life of selfless and sacrificial love beyond flowers, material gifts, kisses and sex.

 Love keeps the world sane

All who celebrate Valentine’s Day should really become agents of authentic, life-giving love in all forms. If Valentine's Day is about showing and spreading true love, then we all need it. Children, youth, adults, the elderly, the dying and even the dead all need love. No matter who we are, Bishops, priests, pastors, politicians, people in business, civil servants, traders, entertainers, athletes and artisans, young or old, we all need love to remain sane and make everyday life meaningful.

I have not found a better description of love than what Saint Paul wrote in the Bible, in his letter to the Corinthians: “Love is always patient and kind; love is never jealous; love is not boastful or conceited, it is never rude and never seeks its own advantage, it does not take offence or store up grievances. Love does not rejoice at wrongdoing but finds its joy in truth. It is always ready to make allowances, to trust, to hope and to endure whatever comes. Love never ends” (1 Cor. 13: 4-8).

The healing power of love

That kind of Valentine love is needed in the world today. We need it in our homes; we need it in our churches, mosques and shrines. We need it in our schools; we need it in our streets. We need authentic agents of love in our markets, and we need them in our parks. We need them in our filling stations, businesses, and playgrounds. We need them in our banks where people now suffer for no fault of theirs. We need authentic love in every heart so that our country and world can heal from all our hurts and be sane again.

Paul also said: “If I am without love, I am nothing” (1 Cor 13: 2). Can we ourselves achieve anything worthwhile and enduring without love? I doubt that we can. This is why I call on everybody to welcome and celebrate Valentine's true authentic love that is selfless, forgiving, empowering, affirming and life-giving.

Celebrate love every day of the year

Valentine is not just about lovers hanging out in pairs. Valentine is also parents who selflessly care for their children with love. Valentine is celebrated in soldiers and security agents who lay down their life to protect others and their nation. It is Valentine when civil servants serve the public with a genuine sense of duty. Yes, it is Valentine when politicians work to address the true needs of the citizens under their care. Authentic Valentines make a difference in homes, families and in society.

We thus need to celebrate such Valentine Days not only in February but every day of the year to help remake a more just, compassionate, and more loving world. That manner of love will conquer all our greed, selfishness, wickedness, hate, and such love never ends!

So, get right ahead, celebrate a good Valentine’s Day and light up the world, for God is love!

 

Vatican News

 

domenica 26 dicembre 2021

LE SOURIRE DE L'AMOUR - THE SMILE OF LOVE - LA SONRISA DEL AMOR

 Pope to couples: 

God always with you in joys and difficulties of married life

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As Pope Francis announced at the Angelus on the Feast of the Holy Family, he published today an open letter to married couples as part of the Amoris Laetitia Family Year. He encourages families to turn to Jesus who is always near in all the ups and downs of daily family life.

By Devin Watkins

The Church is celebrating the Amoris Laetitia Family Year in the runup to the World Meeting of Families set for 26 June 2022.

As part of that event, and in the midst of the Christmas Season, Pope Francis released a letter for married couples across the globe on Sunday.

The Pope first expressed his desire that families feel his “affection and closeness at this very special time,” which has been marked by the Covid-19 pandemic and recurring lockdowns.

“The present situation has made me want to accompany with humility, affection and openness each individual, married couple and family in all those situations in which you find yourselves.”

God’s unconditional love for couples

Pope Francis focused his letter to couples on the constant presence of Jesus in the day-to-day situations of family life. 

He said all couples have set out on a journey—like Abraham—as they leave their parents’ home and build a new life together in matrimony.

“Our relationship with God shapes us, accompanies us and sends us forth as individuals and, ultimately, helps us to “set out from our land”, albeit in many cases with a certain trepidation and even fear in the face of the unknown.”

Yet, he added, our Christian faith reminds us that we are not alone in the challenges of married life, since Jesus is present as time passes, children are born and grow up, and work and illness ebb and flow.

Married couples “set out towards the land that God promises: to be two in Christ, two in one,” said the Pope. “Your lives become a single life; you become a ‘we’ in loving communion with Jesus, alive and present at every moment of your existence.”

“God is always at your side; He loves you unconditionally. You are not alone!”

Children thirsting for a sign of God’s love

The Holy Father then turned his thoughts to couples with children. He urged parents to live Christ’s love in every interaction, since children are always paying attention and soaking up everything.

“Children are always a gift; they change the history of every family. They are thirsty for love, gratitude, esteem and trust. Being parents calls you to pass on to your children the joy of realizing that they are God’s children.”

The Pope admitted that raising children is no easy task, but that children also “raise” their parents, helping them grow in authority that gives children a sense of security and confidence.

Jesus always in our storm-rocked boat

Pope Francis also urged couples to be active members in their parishes, assisting the Church in her mission of accompanying other families less aware of God’s presence.

“You have the mission of transforming society by your presence in the workplace and ensuring that the needs of families are taken into due account,” he added.

He called marriage a vocation and likened it to a boat on a sometimes-story sea. Jesus, said the Pope, is always either in the boat to calm the sea or walking nearby and awaiting our invitation to climb aboard.

“It is important that, together, you keep your eyes fixed on Jesus. Only in this way, will you find peace, overcome conflicts and discover solutions to many of your problems. Those problems, of course, will not disappear, but you will be able to see them from a different perspective.”

Marriage ‘refuge in pandemic storms’

The Pope went on to reflect on the difficulties and opportunities facing families during the pandemic.

He said recurring lockdowns have forced many families to work, study, recreate, and rest in the same house, a situation he said may be difficult at times.

“The time you spend together, far from being a penance, will be become a refuge amid the storms,” he said. “May every family be a place of acceptance and understanding.”

Pope Francis also recalled his invitation to say “please, thanks, sorry”, while avoiding going to bed without making peace.

Couples, added the Pope, can also kneel together before the Eucharist and say a small prayer each evening.

“Remember also that forgiveness heals every wound. Mutual forgiveness is the fruit of an interior resolve that comes to maturity in prayer, in our relationship with God.”

The Holy Father noted that some couples have found the pandemic unbearable and sought separation, a situation he lamented as causing great pain to children. But he assured separated couples of his “closeness and affection”.

Creative courage and a smile

Finally, Pope Francis encouraged couples preparing for marriage to have “creative courage” as they make the more-difficult-than-ever journey toward married life.

And he sent a word of greeting to grandparents, many of whom have felt more alone during lockdowns, and called them “humanity’s living memory.”

The Pope wrapped up his letter to married couples with an encouragement to always live their vocation with a smile and enthusiasm, never letting their faces “grow sad or gloomy”.

“May Saint Joseph inspire in all families a creative courage, so essential for these times of epochal change. May Our Lady help you to foster in your married lives the culture of encounter that we so urgently need in order to face today’s problems and troubles.”

Vatican News

LETTER OF HIS HOLINESS POPE FRANCIS

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